#Konmari before and afters – my bathroom

If you missed Monday’s post, you can catch up here.

Marie Kondo suggests that you start with clothes first (as these are the easiest items; you start with the out-of-season clothes) and do all the sentimental items last.

There’s sense to this because you don’t want to slow down and you want to keep up the momentum.

Once I got the thinking around her method, I decided to start with my bathroom first as it is (quite literally) the smallest bathroom in the world, and always gives me the momentum to start organising, cleaning, whatever.

I asked myself, “does this spark joy?” and most of it didn’t, to be honest, so I tossed it. It being eye shadow, powder foundation, a few old sticky lip glosses, tons of samples (why?!), hair things I hate but keep and toner (I seemed to have a lot of toner).

This is the make-up I kept. I keep it in a little bag so if I’m late and travelling with D, I can do my make-up in the car. I have another lipliner and some more lipsticks permanently stored in my handbag.

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I wrote in a blog post or three ago that her folding method (while making huge waves on the internet) was the thing I was least excited by. Seems like I should have been more excited.

If nothing else, this is life-changing.

I got rid of nothing but simply re-folded all the hand towels and two drawers fit into one.

ONE!

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And then the cabinet. These things spark joy (as you can see, 5 hair products!) and I kept the 3 sample products I actually could use and put them in a pretty candle holder or some glass thing I found in the kitchen.

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A few other odds and ends and that was the bathroom.

It sparks TREMENDOUS joy to see my bathroom so empty of stuff and I love it.

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Also, I do have a thing for Labello!

Long-time readers may remember D and I have a deal – I’m not allowed to blog about or show pics of his stuff. The shelf above this one is his – I Konmari’d it too but no photos!

And there we have it.

Are you inspired yet?

Have you read the book?

Tag me on Instagram to check out your photos. I’m OrganisingQueen #LetsDoThis

The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up – it’s all over the internets

If you’re even somewhat of a blog reader, you’ll have read about The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up somewhere on the internet over the last 6 months or so.

I like to think I have a tiny bit of a clue about decluttering, simplifying and organising so I didn’t get all excited the first time or two I read about it.

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But then I saw all the controversy starting and like a bad accident, I couldn’t look away. I confess that I read all 100 comments on one particular blog post to find out what the big deal is.

The thing is that with books you like some things, you don’t like other things, and that’s the normal course of events.

What was it about this book that was either making people into raving fans or very harsh critics? People either LOVED this book or HATED it.

Modern Mrs Darcy (one of my very favourite blogs on the internet) wrote one post, and then another, and I think it was on the second one that a commenter asked what it is specifically about this book that is making it such a hit.

She said (and I paraphrase because I’m far too lazy to go look it up), it’s the fact that the author deals with both mindset and very specific how-to advice that is The Thing.

I thought, “AHHHH” and that’s what swayed me, honestly.

So when my next Audible credit became due, I bought this book and started listening.

Quick tip – if you like the idea of learning from non-fiction but you keep falling asleep after a page or two, get yourself an Audible membership and listen in the car, while you cook supper and when you tidy your house 🙂 It will change your life. For real!The life-changing magic of tidying up | www.OrganisingQueen.com

I have so many bookmarks that I still have to go through step-by-step but the main thing about this book is this:

It’s not really about tidying up; it’s about tidying being the means to the end, and the end is your amazing and beautiful life!

I listened to the book very quickly because I couldn’t wait to get started.

I also wanted to see if this book would be life-changing for me, a self-proclaimed organising queen 🙂

  1. The short answer is yes. I’ve been tidying (according to her definition) for two weekends and I’m THRILLED with the results in my already (fairly) decluttered home.
  2. I have listened to every single word, rewound many sections to re-listen if I was momentarily distracted by the traffic and I feel very confident to speak to the content.
  3. Just off the top of my head I wrote down 7 things that I saw as controversial on the blogs (which I will address in future blog posts) which, before listening, I thought were huge dramas, and in fact are like a sentence or two of the book. What the heck?!

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As with anything I read/ listen to, I take what works for me and implement, and leave what doesn’t. You should definitely do the same (I say this in my courses too – we are all different personalities and obviously, we all do things in different ways) and I’ll be talking more about the what doesn’t work for me next week.

But definitely, you should read/ listen to the book for yourself (you can get a free book if you go to www.Audible.com/Happier (you all know I’m a big fan of Gretchen Rubin’s podcast and I heard this advertised last week), make your own notes so we can have a lovely, robust discussion and then we can have that life-changing magic going on 😉

I’ll show you some before and after pictures on Friday of the areas I started tidying, and why I started in that order. Meanwhile, please follow Organising Queen on Instagram because I’m posting a lot more photos on there.

So, who’s read the book?

What did you think?

PS I gave it 4 stars!

PPS Jess Lively made a printable for the book which you can find on this post.

#Konmari – and how I follow my favourite blogs

So I’ve finished the book that has been on everyone’s lips for months now. I’m really pleased about that because I really believe in actually reading something before you spout off whatever your opinion is.

That said, I’m going to do exactly that for a series of blog posts starting on Monday, so get ready 🙂

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But first, a question I had from Jacqueline on the Organising Queen Facebook page:

How do you follow the blogs you read? Do you do that from Facebook?

The answer is a big NO! I very rarely go into Facebook. A colleague was really shocked when I said that but I told him I set it up so that I look busier on there than I actually am.

I do post on Instagram daily and for some posts (generally not more than one per day for each of my Instagram feeds), I select the option in Instagram to automatically post it to Facebook. There are two reasons for this:

(1) I don’t want to become that annoying Facebook user who tells you everything about his/ her life.

(2) Since I mainly post photos, Instagram people are used to that, and want that. So I figure an Instagram user’s tolerance for photos is higher than a Facebook user, provided (this is key) it’s not 3 – 5 pics in a row of the exact same pose.

( I reply to Facebook messages from my email)

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So how do I read my blogs now that Google Reader is no more?

I use Feedly.

I actually have two Feedly accounts – one for personal use, and one I read from work while eating my lunch (business-y, productivity blogs). That’s been feeling a little too much (after I returned from 8 days away and found 140 unread items) so I’m slowly removing blogs from the work one, and then I finished reading the book, and now I’m removing blogs from both Feedly accounts.

It’s quite simple: I ask myself the question, “does subscribing to this blog spark joy?” and if it’s yes, it stays. If it’s no, I remove the subscription.

If it’s a maybe, I may leave it for now but I’m noticing my feelings carefully. If I open my Feedly in a week’s time and I’m still not experiencing joy, out it goes.

There are some blogs where I like some of the posts, not all. Those I keep but I sort by blog title and simply mark as read the posts I don’t enjoy. E.g. I used to follow a TON of wedding photography blogs because a lot of them are very educational about business. Now I hide the actual weddings they cover and just read the business-y posts.

Simple but extremely effective.

(some might say brutal)

You have my full encouragement to do the same with this blog if it doesn’t spark joy for you.

Guys, life is too short. Let’s live with intention.

 

I have big plans for this weekend – Konmari

I’ve nearly finished listening to Marie Kondo’s book and I’m itching to start TOSSING!

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I need to re-listen to my bookmarks and make notes before I start blogging, but I already have a few post ideas, like:

  1. things other people seem to have a problem with but not me 🙂
  2. the reasons why I think the book/ method has been so successful
  3. why I think other people are kicking against the method
  4. how this ties in with traditional organising advice, and how it goes against it
  5. my favourite insights about her process

 

Get this – her method for folding is probably my least favourite part of the book.

We have a 3-day weekend in South Africa (YAY!) and I intend to make some good progress on my clothes and maybe even start something else.

Has anyone else used this method?

Did you “tidy” in the suggested order?

(does anyone know if there’s an app that “writes down” the sections of your book you highlight/ bookmark? If not, someone should do that! Currently when I read a book on my iPad, I take screenshots of the highlights when I’m done with the book. There’s got to be a better way… )

Goals night(s) and August goals

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July was super hectic because I was away from home for 11 nights, 12 if you count the one night I arrived at 11.30 due to a cancelled flight. I still maintain that I’d rather arrive home in one piece hours later than…. not 😮

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Things that went well

  1. I met my sleep goal again 07 hrs 15 mins per night, on average. I will add that it’s about 6:50 during the week and well over 8 hours on the weekends.
  2. For the first time EVER, I met my Fitbit goal (which is not 10 000 steps per day). A note on this – I find that if I’m realistic with what I can achieve, I’m more likely to stay motivated and excited. So if this is you, go into your Fitbit settings and change your goal to something reasonable. Maybe start at 5000 steps?
  3. The kids turned 6. We had a science party which both the kids and I loved. I didn’t love the non-RSVPs (as you all know) and I’ve already said next year will be very different (separate, small parties).
  4. We had some great family time on holiday. It’s scary how quickly the kids are growing up. Case in point – first holiday we have not needed a single plaster (Band-Aid)!
  5. House stuff – painting and more painting. I also got people in to quote on everything under the sun…. so now to make decisions and execute some of them … when it’s a bit warmer.
  6. I actually started the #Konmari process with my website. I asked “does this spark joy?” about each of my product pages and if the answer was yes, the page stayed up. Everything else has been deleted! It feels great. Please get yourself a copy of Discover Yourself and check out the more streamlined site.
  7. I read 6 books, most of which were great. Have a look at my Goodreads.
  8. Took 10 photowalks which is why I’m so behind on my photos but it was WONDERFUL.

*other things that went well – I noticed that this is the first year I haven’t had a cold sore in winter yet…. and I haven’t had the flu either 🙂

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Things that did not go well

  1. I’m feeling stretched thin too much. To that end, I’m going to be doing a time budget sometime this week and I hope to report back in a week or two.
  2. I’m so far behind with my Bible reading I fear my Bible buddies have given up on me 😮
  3. I feel like I’m neglecting a few areas of my life.

Projects for August

  1. I want to finish reading/ listening to The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying up, and then #Konmari (I’m making it a verb) my clothes and books, and the kids’ clothes and books.
  2. More house stuff – ughhhhhh
  3. Write a new birthday list 🙂

How was your July?

What do you have planned for August?

The Konmari method vs Capsule Wardrobing vs old-fashioned decluttering

As I mentioned on Monday, I bought The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying up and I started listening today.

Since I’m not ready to write a review yet, I thought I’d give you a quick take on the book so far and then talk about other methods.

The short answer is – I already love a lot of it. Those who are Questioners will enjoy it too, I think 🙂

this photo is from last year – half those things I no longer own 🙂

 

The Konmari Method

If you search the hashtag #Konmari on Instagram, you will see amazing photos of people’s spaces (and I think, lives) being transformed.

I follow someone who is a huge crafter and she is KILLING it. She’s done her clothes, kids’ clothes, toys, books and craft stuff. Amazing.

For me so far, it’s about more than stuff and organising and I think that’s why this method is so successful.

The abstainers will love it; as a moderator, I’m listening in the car, cringing at the thought of ALL my stuff on my FLOOR (my trigger! I can’t STAND stuff on the floor – #justaskmykids) but I can see the attraction, especially for the abstainers. If you’re a moderator, my organise your home e-course is much more of a step-by-step process.

The main thing is “does this spark joy?” If it does, you keep it. If not, toss. So simple and yet so powerful.

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Capsule wardrobing

Capsule wardrobes don’t really work for me mainly because I’m not a neutral type of person and I really love colour. But I ignored the numbers of things you’re “supposed” to have in your capsule, did a work clothes and a casual clothes capsule, and that did it for me.

I have much less, and most things do go with one another.

The advantages for me – easy to dress in the mornings, very easy to pack when I went on holiday and almost everything goes with everything else.

The disadvantage for me – my clothes started feeling a bit boring – but then I told myself, “that’s what scarves are for” and I have plenty of those, so much so I actually decluttered some 😮

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Old-fashioned decluttering

Before all these new-fangled ideas came about, there was old-fashioned decluttering, which worked just fine for most of us.

I’ve written plenty about decluttering clothes before, and what I said then is still true. The process is solid.

We typically wear only about 20% of our stuff so why not only keep the 20% and actually wear all the things we love.

Decluttering is not as trendy a word as a capsule wardrobe or Konmari is, but I promise, if you go step-by-step, it will still work.

My thoughts

Decluttering is more for the moderator, and Konmari is more for the abstainer.

Although if you want to make radical change quickly and you’re prepared for a bit of upheaval, then Konmari’s going to get the job done SUPER quick.

What’s working in terms of managing your clothes/ stuff these days?

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